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[Educational inquiry] family education and school education should be effectively combined

[Educational inquiry] family education and school education should be effectively combined

(Summary description)Withthepopularizationofmodernfamilyeducationandrapidandeffectivedevelopment,eachfamilyisincreasinglypayingmoreattentiontotheeducationofchildren.Speakingofchildren'seducation,eachparentwillhavealotofexperienceanduniqueness.Becausethechild'spersonalityandgrowthexperiencearedifferent,theeducationalmethodsaredifferent,andthechild'spersonalityanddevelopmentwillalsobedifferent.However,ouraimistobeconsistent,andweallhopethatthechildwillbecomeausefulpersonandapromisingpersoninthefuture.Today,everyfamilyandeverychildisa"protectedbird".Asparents,weallhopethatthisbirdcanflyfreelyandflyhigherandfarther.Infact,ourmoreandmoreChildrendotoomuchtodowhattheyshoulddo,suchaspackingclothesandsocks,anddoingmanualwork...Sometimes,evenstoppinginterference,criticizingaccusations,andventingemotionstohim.Then,asachildwhoisgrowingup,howcanit"haveachancetoridethewindandbreakthewaves,andhangthecloudsandsailthesea?" 1.Co-constructionofhomeandschool,effectivecombination,trainingchildren'sgoodbehaviorhabitsInordertomakechildrengrowuphealthyandhappy,schooleducationandfamilyeducationareactuallythepairofwingsofthis"bird",whichareindispensable.Effectivecooperationbetweenhomeandschoolistheprimaryprerequisiteandnecessaryconditionforeducatingchildren.Whenthechildjustwenttokindergarten,theteachertaughtthemtodotheirownthingsandcultivategoodhabitsfromanearlyage.Dressyourself,washyourface,eatyourself...Developingoodhabitsandgrowhealthily.Home---isthechild’sfirstschool,andasaparent,wemustbetheleaderandguideofthechild."Childrenwanttogrow,birdsmustflyhigh."Boththeschoolandthefamilyhavetogivetheirwings.Schooleducationisnobetterthantheclosecooperationofthefamily.Everythingisfutile.Schooleducationandfamilyeducationmustbeinthesamedirectiononthegoal.Intermsofmeasures,theschoolservesasapositionforteachingandeducatingpeople.Thepurposeistotrainqualifiedpersonnelforthedevelopmentofthevastmajorityofchildren.Asafamily,childrenareourfutureandhope.Therefore,asthefirstteacherofthechild,wemustcorrectourwordsanddeeds,cooperatewiththeschool'seducationalphilosophy,andworkhardforthechildrenandforthechildren. 2,parentsmustleadbyexample,setagoodexampleforchildrenTheancientssaid:"Educatingpeoplemustfirstcultivatethemselves",whileparentsarethemostimportantteachersintheirchildren'slives.Frombirthtogrowth,childrenlearnfrombabiestogrowup.Thelittlebitofgettingalongwiththeparents,thewordsanddeedsoftheparents,areaffectingthedevelopmentofthechildinasubtleway.Therefore,nomatterwhatwedo,wemustsetagoodexampleforourchildren.Asthesayinggoes:"Parents'wordsanddeedswillaffectthechild'slife."Andsomeofourbadpracticeswillbecometheobjectofthechildtofollow.Attheendoflastyear,ourchildrenoftensaidsomeswearwords,swearing,whenIcriticizedherloudly,sherepliedmeloudly,andyouadultswerealsoswearing,whycan'tI?Thechild’swordssurprisedmeandthoughtaboutit.Wedidnotpayattentiontoourwordsanddeedssometimes.Therefore,ourfamilyimmediatelyformulatedarectificationplan,whosaidswearing,swearing,penaltystationfor1minute,orahouseworkweek.Thismovedidwork,andsoonwechangedthisunknownbadhabit.Also,wearebetteroff,thechildrenwillfollowustodoit.Forexample,ifyouhaveagoodmeal,shareitwithyourparentsandelders.Onweekends,youwillbecleanedup.Thetwochildrenwillcomeovertohelp,sortoutbooks,sweepthefloor,andpour.Garbage,onthebus,givetheoldmanaseat,thechildrenarealsovyingtogivetheoldmanaseat...Sometimes,infact,thechildisbetterthanouradults,suchascrossingtheroad,resolutelycannotredlight.Garbageshouldbethrownintothegarbagebin...Itturnsoutthatthethingsthataskthechildrentodowell,ourparentstodotheirownisthebesteducationforthechildren. 3.Learntocommunicatewithyourchildandbeaclosefriendofyourchild.ModerneducatorChenXisaid:"Children'sacademicperformanceisofcourseimportant,butqualitytrainingismoreimportant.Asparents,wealwaysliketobehigh,oftenface-lifting,seriousexpression,andchildrenwillbeloudlyshoutedwhentheyarenotdoingwell.IknowhowtowatchTV.Seehowyoucangrowup?"...andafterwehavea"prestige",wearenotholdingamobilephonetochaseaplay,oracircleoffriends.Nevertalktoachild,andinadvertentlypullawaythefamilyrelationshipwiththechild.Therefore,Ithinkthechildgrowsup.Itisalsocloselyrelatedtothefamilyenvironment.Theatmosphereisalsoveryimportant.Childrenwhogrowupinarelaxedandharmoniousfamilyareconfidentandoptimisticinthesun.Therefore,communicationwithchildrenisthemosteffectivewaytogetclosertoeachother.Moreimportantly,Establishademocraticandequalplatformfordialogue.Parentsmusthavepatienceandlearntoempathize.Infact,thepressureofchildrennowadaysisindeedverygreat.Forexample,JingSiyao,thedaughterofthefifthgradeofShangdongStreetPrimarySchool,didnottestitonce.Well,whenIenteredthehouse,Ilockedmyselfinthebedroomandcried.HowcanInotcallitout?ItwasonlyunderourguidancethatIopenedthedoor.WhenIlearnedthatthemathematicsscorewaslow,Iimmediatelybecameangryandangry,butIdidn’tfindthereason.Onthecontrary,shewasfuriousandviolentlyslammedher.Afterafewdays,thechildsawmeandwantedtohide.Ifeltregretagainfrommyheart,afterreflection,thatday.Imadeadeliciousmeal,thefamilysattogetherandtalkeda

[Educational inquiry] family education and school education should be effectively combined

(Summary description)Withthepopularizationofmodernfamilyeducationandrapidandeffectivedevelopment,eachfamilyisincreasinglypayingmoreattentiontotheeducationofchildren.Speakingofchildren'seducation,eachparentwillhavealotofexperienceanduniqueness.Becausethechild'spersonalityandgrowthexperiencearedifferent,theeducationalmethodsaredifferent,andthechild'spersonalityanddevelopmentwillalsobedifferent.However,ouraimistobeconsistent,andweallhopethatthechildwillbecomeausefulpersonandapromisingpersoninthefuture.Today,everyfamilyandeverychildisa"protectedbird".Asparents,weallhopethatthisbirdcanflyfreelyandflyhigherandfarther.Infact,ourmoreandmoreChildrendotoomuchtodowhattheyshoulddo,suchaspackingclothesandsocks,anddoingmanualwork...Sometimes,evenstoppinginterference,criticizingaccusations,andventingemotionstohim.Then,asachildwhoisgrowingup,howcanit"haveachancetoridethewindandbreakthewaves,andhangthecloudsandsailthesea?" 1.Co-constructionofhomeandschool,effectivecombination,trainingchildren'sgoodbehaviorhabitsInordertomakechildrengrowuphealthyandhappy,schooleducationandfamilyeducationareactuallythepairofwingsofthis"bird",whichareindispensable.Effectivecooperationbetweenhomeandschoolistheprimaryprerequisiteandnecessaryconditionforeducatingchildren.Whenthechildjustwenttokindergarten,theteachertaughtthemtodotheirownthingsandcultivategoodhabitsfromanearlyage.Dressyourself,washyourface,eatyourself...Developingoodhabitsandgrowhealthily.Home---isthechild’sfirstschool,andasaparent,wemustbetheleaderandguideofthechild."Childrenwanttogrow,birdsmustflyhigh."Boththeschoolandthefamilyhavetogivetheirwings.Schooleducationisnobetterthantheclosecooperationofthefamily.Everythingisfutile.Schooleducationandfamilyeducationmustbeinthesamedirectiononthegoal.Intermsofmeasures,theschoolservesasapositionforteachingandeducatingpeople.Thepurposeistotrainqualifiedpersonnelforthedevelopmentofthevastmajorityofchildren.Asafamily,childrenareourfutureandhope.Therefore,asthefirstteacherofthechild,wemustcorrectourwordsanddeeds,cooperatewiththeschool'seducationalphilosophy,andworkhardforthechildrenandforthechildren. 2,parentsmustleadbyexample,setagoodexampleforchildrenTheancientssaid:"Educatingpeoplemustfirstcultivatethemselves",whileparentsarethemostimportantteachersintheirchildren'slives.Frombirthtogrowth,childrenlearnfrombabiestogrowup.Thelittlebitofgettingalongwiththeparents,thewordsanddeedsoftheparents,areaffectingthedevelopmentofthechildinasubtleway.Therefore,nomatterwhatwedo,wemustsetagoodexampleforourchildren.Asthesayinggoes:"Parents'wordsanddeedswillaffectthechild'slife."Andsomeofourbadpracticeswillbecometheobjectofthechildtofollow.Attheendoflastyear,ourchildrenoftensaidsomeswearwords,swearing,whenIcriticizedherloudly,sherepliedmeloudly,andyouadultswerealsoswearing,whycan'tI?Thechild’swordssurprisedmeandthoughtaboutit.Wedidnotpayattentiontoourwordsanddeedssometimes.Therefore,ourfamilyimmediatelyformulatedarectificationplan,whosaidswearing,swearing,penaltystationfor1minute,orahouseworkweek.Thismovedidwork,andsoonwechangedthisunknownbadhabit.Also,wearebetteroff,thechildrenwillfollowustodoit.Forexample,ifyouhaveagoodmeal,shareitwithyourparentsandelders.Onweekends,youwillbecleanedup.Thetwochildrenwillcomeovertohelp,sortoutbooks,sweepthefloor,andpour.Garbage,onthebus,givetheoldmanaseat,thechildrenarealsovyingtogivetheoldmanaseat...Sometimes,infact,thechildisbetterthanouradults,suchascrossingtheroad,resolutelycannotredlight.Garbageshouldbethrownintothegarbagebin...Itturnsoutthatthethingsthataskthechildrentodowell,ourparentstodotheirownisthebesteducationforthechildren. 3.Learntocommunicatewithyourchildandbeaclosefriendofyourchild.ModerneducatorChenXisaid:"Children'sacademicperformanceisofcourseimportant,butqualitytrainingismoreimportant.Asparents,wealwaysliketobehigh,oftenface-lifting,seriousexpression,andchildrenwillbeloudlyshoutedwhentheyarenotdoingwell.IknowhowtowatchTV.Seehowyoucangrowup?"...andafterwehavea"prestige",wearenotholdingamobilephonetochaseaplay,oracircleoffriends.Nevertalktoachild,andinadvertentlypullawaythefamilyrelationshipwiththechild.Therefore,Ithinkthechildgrowsup.Itisalsocloselyrelatedtothefamilyenvironment.Theatmosphereisalsoveryimportant.Childrenwhogrowupinarelaxedandharmoniousfamilyareconfidentandoptimisticinthesun.Therefore,communicationwithchildrenisthemosteffectivewaytogetclosertoeachother.Moreimportantly,Establishademocraticandequalplatformfordialogue.Parentsmusthavepatienceandlearntoempathize.Infact,thepressureofchildrennowadaysisindeedverygreat.Forexample,JingSiyao,thedaughterofthefifthgradeofShangdongStreetPrimarySchool,didnottestitonce.Well,whenIenteredthehouse,Ilockedmyselfinthebedroomandcried.HowcanInotcallitout?ItwasonlyunderourguidancethatIopenedthedoor.WhenIlearnedthatthemathematicsscorewaslow,Iimmediatelybecameangryandangry,butIdidn’tfindthereason.Onthecontrary,shewasfuriousandviolentlyslammedher.Afterafewdays,thechildsawmeandwantedtohide.Ifeltregretagainfrommyheart,afterreflection,thatday.Imadeadeliciousmeal,thefamilysattogetherandtalkeda

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With the popularization of modern family education and rapid and effective development, each family is increasingly paying more attention to the education of children. Speaking of children's education, each parent will have a lot of experience and uniqueness. Because the child's personality and growth experience are different, the educational methods are different, and the child's personality and development will also be different. However, our aim is to be consistent, and we all hope that the child will become a useful person and a promising person in the future.
Today, every family and every child is a "protected bird". As parents, we all hope that this bird can fly freely and fly higher and farther. In fact, our more and more Children do too much to do what they should do, such as packing clothes and socks, and doing manual work... Sometimes, even stopping interference, criticizing accusations, and venting emotions to him. Then, as a child who is growing up, how can it "have a chance to ride the wind and break the waves, and hang the clouds and sail the sea?"
 
1. Co-construction of home and school, effective combination, training children's good behavior habits
In order to make children grow up healthy and happy, school education and family education are actually the pair of wings of this "bird", which are indispensable. Effective cooperation between home and school is the primary prerequisite and necessary condition for educating children. When the child just went to kindergarten, the teacher taught them to do their own things and cultivate good habits from an early age. Dress yourself, wash your face, eat yourself... Develop in good habits and grow healthily. Home---is the child’s first school, and as a parent, we must be the leader and guide of the child. "Children want to grow, birds must fly high." Both the school and the family have to give their wings. School education is no better than the close cooperation of the family. Everything is futile. School education and family education must be in the same direction on the goal. In terms of measures, the school serves as a position for teaching and educating people. The purpose is to train qualified personnel for the development of the vast majority of children. As a family, children are our future and hope. Therefore, as the first teacher of the child, we must correct our words and deeds, cooperate with the school's educational philosophy, and work hard for the children and for the children.
 
2, parents must lead by example, set a good example for children
The ancients said: "Educating people must first cultivate themselves", while parents are the most important teachers in their children's lives. From birth to growth, children learn from babies to grow up. The little bit of getting along with the parents, the words and deeds of the parents, are affecting the development of the child in a subtle way. Therefore, no matter what we do, we must set a good example for our children. As the saying goes: "Parents' words and deeds will affect the child's life." And some of our bad practices will become the object of the child to follow. At the end of last year, our children often said some swear words, swearing, when I criticized her loudly, she replied me loudly, and you adults were also swearing, why can't I? The child’s words surprised me and thought about it. We did not pay attention to our words and deeds sometimes. Therefore, our family immediately formulated a rectification plan, who said swearing, swearing, penalty station for 1 minute, or a housework week. This move did work, and soon we changed this unknown bad habit. Also, we are better off, the children will follow us to do it. For example, if you have a good meal, share it with your parents and elders. On weekends, you will be cleaned up. The two children will come over to help, sort out books, sweep the floor, and pour. Garbage, on the bus, give the old man a seat, the children are also vying to give the old man a seat... Sometimes, in fact, the child is better than our adults, such as crossing the road, resolutely can not red light. Garbage should be thrown into the garbage bin... It turns out that the things that ask the children to do well, our parents to do their own is the best education for the children.
 
3. Learn to communicate with your child and be a close friend of your child.
Modern educator Chen Xi said: "Children's academic performance is of course important, but quality training is more important. As parents, we always like to be high, often face-lifting, serious expression, and children will be loudly shouted when they are not doing well. I know how to watch TV. See how you can grow up? "...and after we have a "prestige", we are not holding a mobile phone to chase a play, or a circle of friends. Never talk to a child, and inadvertently pull away the family relationship with the child. Therefore, I think the child grows up. It is also closely related to the family environment. The atmosphere is also very important. Children who grow up in a relaxed and harmonious family are confident and optimistic in the sun. Therefore, communication with children is the most effective way to get closer to each other. More importantly, Establish a democratic and equal platform for dialogue. Parents must have patience and learn to empathize. In fact, the pressure of children nowadays is indeed very great. For example, Jing Siyao, the daughter of the fifth grade of Shangdong Street Primary School, did not test it once. Well, when I entered the house, I locked myself in the bedroom and cried. How can I not call it out? It was only under our guidance that I opened the door. When I learned that the mathematics score was low, I immediately became angry and angry, but I didn’t find the reason. On the contrary, she was furious and violently slammed her. After a few days, the child saw me and wanted to hide. I felt regret again from my heart, after reflection, that day. I made a delicious meal, the family sat together and talked and laughed, and no one talked about the results. After the meal, the child took the initiative to help me wash the dishes, chat with me. I also admitted the mistake to me. I also to the children. After saying the truth, I apologized. After that, we took out the test papers and carefully analyzed the mistakes. We did not ask Jia Peng teacher. The teacher’s serious explanation, the parents’ patience, and the children’s achievements have also made good progress. Therefore, when a child makes a mistake, the stormy criticism of education may not solve the problem. It is better to sit down and talk to the child, see where there are mistakes, do not understand, and then check for missing traps, maybe It will be more effective. As we all know, learning is a boring job, and as a family, it is also the warmest harbor for everyone. Parents will develop some good habits and hobbies for their children, such as parent-child reading, poetry competition, doing manual work, playing. Play a useful game. It will bring the distance between parents and children closer. As long as we are the parents to let go, pay more attention to snacks, accompany children, and treat them as intimate Friends, children will also find happiness in learning, feel the happiness of growth!
 
4. Make reading and interest a habit and beautify your child's heart
Books---the ladder for everyone to climb the peak, is also the beacon of our voyage, and is a good medicine for our spiritual sublimation. Nowadays, in today's promotion of "new reading for all", the school strongly advocates "parent reading" and "read a book together" activities. In December 2017, Dongjie Primary School held the "Family Reading Achievements Exhibition", and the classic fairy tale "Little Red Riding Hood" me and my children carefully arranged won the first prize of the whole school. In recent years, the child insisted on reading and writing. Under the guidance and encouragement of the teacher of class teacher Zhu Yahong, in December 2018, Jing Siyao’s work “A Book I Like” won the county-level essay-writing excellence award and was published on the platform of “Lishui Scholars”. A few pieces of works, in March this year, the school granted children "reading small people." The son of the kindergarten, Jingbo, is not to be outdone. Fu Rong encourages the child to insist on recite a song every week, a Tang poem or learn to tell a story, and tell the child the next day. He is also a platform for the readers. He also published 2 works. Therefore, Jingbo was awarded the honorable title of “Shuxiang Family” by Guangchuan Kindergarten of Luanchuan County. The children are happy, and everyone says, "I have 3 awards." At the same time, I also followed the children, and was awarded the title of “The Most Beautiful Lishui Scholar” by the Luanchuan County Education Bureau at the end of last year. Hereby, in order to encourage children's growth and progress, the child's father specially bought cake for us to celebrate! These may not seem to be anything, but for children, it is affirmation and recognition of the results of their efforts. Children will realize that there will be gains in their efforts and they will be remembered. The horn of "opening new reading, building a new era" has already sounded, making reading a fashion for each of our families. A habit of "reading classic culture and inheriting Chinese civilization" is the responsibility and mission of our contemporary family. Parents can prepare some suitable children's books for their children and make reading cards together... This will not only enrich their knowledge and vision, but also make them rich and valuable during the boring time. Now, when I have time, I will take my children to the library or go to a friend's house. The books on the bookshelf become a loyal friend of the child. I will read it with great interest and taste the truth in the book. The plot in the chat book became the topic of our communication with the children. The family is harmonious, the book is full of fragrance, and the child's personality will be suddenly open and confident.

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